Checks and Balances: It's Not Just for Banks...

On occasion, my friends and I take time from our busy schedules and decide to break the confines of social networking. In doing so, we manage to somehow... PICK UP A PHONE AND CALL EACH OTHER!!! Nonetheless, when it comes to one person, it never really matters what form of communication we use.. every conversation seems to always leave with a valued message. During today's session of #GirlTalk with @Kiadelis we spoke on the topic of friends and how its so important to have people who are really down for you, but that will also stand up to you.  As Kia entitled it, "Checks & Balances: It's Not Just for Banks".

         Good friends are not scared to call you out on your shit when you're wrong. They help you acknowledge your faults in certain situations and then help u balance it out. Now if your a person who can't take others respectfully correcting your errors, then you have lost all rights to call yourself a "Real B^tch or Real Ni@@a".  A real friend should also not be scared to correct or chastise someones wrong doings. A wise person will respect you if you're able to tell them when their wrong.If you dont have that type of relationship with your "friends" where you're honest.. even when at fault.. you're not FRIENDS..  There is a need for #ChecksandBalances throughout all of life's experiences and in every relationship.

"Checks and Balances are in place for a reason. Realty checks will bring about balance."- Kiange